The first lesson here is to keep everything simple. Guys like girls who are sorted out and easy to be with, but difficult to get. Keep your opinions, suggestions and advice on something very simple and clear. When you are with him, don’t complicate things when they aren’t required. Don’t try to ask him too much about himself and don’t tell too much about yourself. If he asks you a question, answer it and if you don’t want to, tell him you can’t and why you can’t do so. Too much of information right from the start, make company boring later. If you don’t like something about him or a certain way he behaves in, tell him nicely about it. Do not act in a way that implies what you think, keep it straight. Even the relationship status should be simple. Either you are friends or you are dating and are in a relationship. A girl who is easy, will never be taken seriously! Even if you love the guy, no dignity for yourself, will also mean less respect in his eyes!
Say No to the Jealousy Act
While knowing how to act around a guy you like, always remember this one lesson. Never try to make him jealous. No guy likes competition in the slightest form. There will be times when you might want to show him that you can get anyone you want. However, at such times, he’s going to think, you can settle for anyone and have no feelings for him. If you like a guy, the first you need to do is maintain a healthy distance from all guys and guy friends. Let him know that you are a girl who takes time in knowing someone and being close to someone. There may be men who fall for you during this time, but if you have your eyes on this one guy, set good boundaries for the others. Sometimes, you might want some attention yourself, given the fact that you aren’t getting enough from someone you like. You have to consciously remember that this will work against you!
Healthy Flirting
Just being that sweet and simple is not enough as this doesn’t show your feelings for that guy. Maybe he is waiting for some sort of signals from your side to proceed ahead. Guys take time to understand, so it’s important that you show him you like him. Flirt a little, but keep it more witty and intelligent than romantic or sensuous. Healthy flirting should exist in every relationship, even between a husband and wife. Flirt with him once in a while, and he’ll know you are thinking exactly what he’s thinking. Also, he will understand a different side of yours and would want to know more about you. Flirting helps in many ways and there is not one reason why you shouldn’t resort to it. Say something with a double meaning once in a while and smile slyly. This will surely surprise him in no time. However, don’t get down to flirting in such a way that you look desperate.
Show Him What You Are
Not many people know the good stuff about all of us in the first few meetings. If you want a guy to notice the good in you, you have to show it to him. Even then, he might take some time to realize. If you have an attribute, get it out in front of him. The more he likes something about you, the more he likes you. Make sure he doesn’t see your weak points that often, like, your temper or your vulnerability. If you are a good student, make sure he knows about it. If you are a good cook, tell him about that too. This would also be a great excuse to invite him over for dinner. This way, he’ll know a lot of stuff about you that is good. This might make you look like a great prospect, if you don’t already seem like one. Once in a while, also let him know about the things you like in him. After all, he shouldn’t feel all lost, in comparison with that goodness.
Dress to Attract
This isn’t the most important tip to tell you how to behave around a guy you like, but it surely cannot be ignored. Guys understand physical attraction better than anything. They are immediately attracted to girls who look good. Attracting guys can take time, of course. If you are looking for a long term committed relationship, concentrate more on looking pretty and beautiful than looking hot. Pretty, well dressed girls always come across as sweet people. Your appearance and the way you dress is your first communication with person, before you even speak a single word. If you are dressed in an erotic manner or are careless about hygiene, the guy will be repulsed immediately. He might reject you even before he considers dating you. When you are around him, always try to be the simple, pretty and innocent (not very and irritatingly) girl.
These tips will surely help you know how to act around a guy you like in no time. Soon, you will be able to tell which are the things that are improving the situation and which ones aren’t. Always remember to respect the guy you like and make him feel comfortable. Guys take a long time to express their emotions and the only way they can do this sooner, is if they find a comfort zone. Try to build this comfort zone for him. Be his emotional backup and his companion in good times! That’s all you need to do. When you are with him, be physically and mentally present. Soon, he’ll value your company and eventually, he’ll start valuing you as a person.
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